Ken and Barbie Partners in Crime: Paul Bernardo and Karla Homolka

Karla Homolka in court July 6, 1993 | Courtesy of

Could you love somebody so much that you would kill for them? Paul Bernardo and Karla Homolka did. Since the first time they met, they knew they were meant for each other. Once kindled, their lustful relationship grew into one that led them deeper into sexual experimentation. They both had manipulative personalities, but Paul’s would eventually overpower Karla’s. Their fantasies grew stronger, and then family and friends began dying at the hands of these two, Paul and Karla. They thought they were smart enough to get away with it, but soon enough, all their dreams of an escape came crashing down.

Karla was born in Ontario, Canada on May 4, 1970. She was the eldest of three, and grew to be smart, popular, pretty, and well-loved by her friends and family. Karla pursued a job at a veterinary clinic. She adored animals. While at a pet convention in Toronto, she met her prince charming, Paul Bernardo, at just age seventeen. And Paul was twenty-three. The relationship between the two rapidly advanced. They both clicked instantly, sharing pathological desires in their sex life, binding them closer. This led to quirky foreplay, where Paul played the master and Karla the slave.1

Karla and her husband, Paul Bernardo | Courtesy of

Paul loved the feeling of dominating women. And Karla was wrapped around so tightly on his finger that she would do anything to please him. Bernardo often complained that when he met her, she was not a virgin. Karla, willing to satisfy Paul’s needs, offered her younger sister Tammy as a sex sacrifice to him because Tammy was still a virgin. Both planned to force Tammy into being a younger and purer version of Karla. To do this, Karla stole an animal anesthetic from her workplace for later use. On December 23, 1990, at a Christmas party at their home, the couple drugged Tammy’s drink with halcyon, and soon took her down into the basement. Karla pulled out the animal anesthetic and drenched a cloth with it to cover Tammy’s mouth, and knock her unconscious. Bernardo raped her, but Tammy unexpectedly began gagging on her own vomit and suddenly died. When her death was officially declared, it was labeled as an accidental death, as the drugs in her body went undetected.2

Paul continued his killings in the Scarborough suburbs of Toronto. He raped women and then murdered them. Some women fortunately escaped with only an attempted rape. No one could pin down who was committing these crimes. So this mysterious figure became known as the Scarborough Rapist. He usually attacked females outdoors, but occasionally he would break into their homes and severely beat them along with strong verbal harassment. Soon, the Metropolitan Toronto Police created an investigation to capture and arrest the Scarborough Rapist. It was only a month later that the Forensic Science Center matched Bernardo’s DNA with the Scarborough Rapist.3

Karla Homolka | Courtesy of

A search of Bernardo’s home revealed numerous tape recordings of the rapes upon the women. Lots of the tapes showed the women being strangled and killed by Paul by their end. Karla decided to testify against Bernardo, and in return was to be granted a reduced sentence. Karla was interrogated for four days. She blamed Paul for her sister Tammy’s death, and described many of Paul’s kidnappings and rapes that resulted in women’s deaths. Two victims during the reign of the Scarborough Rapist were two schoolgirls Mahaffy and Kristen. Karla accused Paul of committing these crimes, and her accounts were later found to be true by forensic evidence. She said she lived in terror of Paul and was forced by him to partake in his crimes. On February 17, Bernardo was arrested and brought to the Toronto detention center where he awaited trial. At his trial, he was charged with first degree murder, found guilty, and subsequently sentenced to life in prison with possibility of parole in twenty-five years. Karla was sentenced to only twelve years in prison.4

Karla’s bruised face caused by Paul’s abuse | Courtesy of

Now what did the future hold for these two who eventually turned on each other? As for Paul, he will be eligible for parole in 2018 at the age of fifty. But surprising news has surfaced, Paul is planning to get married while serving his term! Apparently a woman from London, Ontario, who requested to remain anonymous, has been charmed by this “innocent” man. She has said to her friends that Bernardo was just a bystander to the rapes and murders of the two schoolgirls. She was so determined to wed this convicted killer that she tattooed one of her ankles “Paul’s girl.” On the other hand, the woman’s father rejects her plans and says he hopes she will abandon this ill-thought idea. Many other news reporters and even the lawyers who represented Kristen and Mahaffy have all commented on how appalling they found it to be for anyone wanting to wed a man after his horrific crimes.5

As for Karla Homolka, she was released in 2005 after a short twelve year sentence. She thereafter resided in Quebec and married Thierry Bordelais, gave birth to a son, and later had two other children. She was found volunteering at an elementary school in Montreal. Breakfast Television Montreal has confirmed that she often went to the elementary school where her children also attend. Many parents of other children were displeased to see this, and red flags were raised. Parents commented that they did not want her to be on the school’s property and that they believed it wasn’t right for a former serial killer to be around children, especially volunteering. Disturbed parents complained to the school, but they weren’t answered until the Quebec Conference of Seventh-day Adventists sent out a letter. They stated that their priority was to provide quality education to the students and that while they arrange the complaints from the parents, they encourage parents to communicate with the Quebec Conference Office of Education. They also say that they were aware of who Karla is and that it is the law for Canada to conduct background checks on any personnel associated with the school. Karla, tired of the social media, moved away in the year 2007. Nobody heard of her again until a journalist, Paula Todd, came across her in Guadeloupe in 2012.6

  1. Charles Montaldo, “The Crimes of Karla Homolka and Paul Bernardo,” ThoughtCo., (May 2017).
  2. Charles Montaldo, “The Crimes of Karla Homolka and Paul Bernardo,” ThoughtCo., (May 2017).
  3. Historica Canada: The Canadian Encyclopedia, June 2016, s.v., “Paul Bernardo and Karla Homolka Case,” by Edward Butts.
  4. Nick Pron, Lethal Marriage: The Unspeakable Crimes of Paul Bernardo and Karla Homolka (Canada: McClelland-Bantam Inc., 1995), 9-16.
  5. Irene Ogrodnik, “Convicted killer Paul Bernardo set to marry: report.” Global News, July 4, 2014. Accessed December 6, 2017.
  6. Fazioli, Domenic. “EXCLUSIVE: Karla Homolka occasionally volunteers at Montreal elementary school.” CityNews, May 26, 2017.
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  • There is a documentary about this couple on netflix, and I think this article did a great job of following the timeline. I have always thought that this story was very interesting due to the fact that Karla even went to the extent of using her own sister as a reward for Paul. The documentary goes further into this event describing how Karla never felt bad. I also think that it was interesting that she went and changed her name and changed her whole life.

  • It’s disgusting to even attempt to imagine what was going through Karla’s head when she offered her younger sister to Paul. Taking into consideration that she was so willing to turn against her family to satiate the “needs” of her boyfriend that ultimately resulted in her sister’s death leaves the impression that she wasn’t as innocent as she portrayed herself to be.

  • I do not understand how someone could hurt their own sister just for love. What she did for him is completely insane. This was a very interesting article. Just by reading the title I would have never thought this would be the type of story it came out to be. I have never heard of this couple before so it is nice to learn something completely new. I think that what the wife considers love is not loving at all. The couple deserves what they got plus more.

  • It is so crazy what Karla did for love. To think that she was willing to sacrifice her sister to her boyfriend and was an accomplice to her rape and subsequent death is so horrifying. It’s also very saddening to see how Paul abused her and other women physically and mentally. It’s a good thing that Karla received the opportunity to get married and have a healthy life and family.

  • I had never heard of this couple prior to reading this article, but this girl is absolutely crazy in love. Personally, I don’t think I could ever risk my entire future for someone that I’m in a relationship with or even married to, to be completely honest. The fact that this woman was even given the opportunity to have a life after what she stayed quiet about for so many years is crazy. A well written article.

  • I cannot believe what Carla did to satisfy her husband, and how strange it was that she could betray her sister for him, I do not think this can be classified as love, I think that judgment was not enough, they deserved a cruel punishment to be a lesson to others. a good article I enjoyed reading. Not surprising how people treated Carla after she got out of prison for the horror of what she did with her husband. a good article I enjoyed reading.

  • At what lengths are humans willing to go for “love”? What a shocking story!
    I’ve never heard of this couple before, but i can relate this story to the famous couple of Bonnie and Clyde. All the things they did, was unbelievable but at the same time brings together a very engaging story! very nice work!

  • I have never heard of this couple before, the only famous crime couple that I heard was Bonnie and Clyde. This was a very good article on providing information that allowed to me know about the couple. It is hard to read that Karla allowed and helped Paul drug her own sister and let her get raped by Paul. Like what kind of person would do that? This is not love and I don’t understand how someone could marry a person after all that. Tragic.

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